There are certain words in the English language that are similar, yet they have substantially different meanings. Two words that come directly to my mind are sympathy and empathy. The words are often misplaced in conversation. For example, I cannot sympathize with someone if I never experienced what they are encountering. However, I can express empathy because I share a sense of compassion towards their situation.
In my personal opinion, sympathy can be selectively intrusive. Of course, I am appreciative of sympathy. However, sympathy is often rehearsed. On the other hand, I am an advocate for empathy. I believe that empathy is genuine. For instance, if I am empathetic towards the homeless man I meet on the street, it is not because I have experienced homelessness. I have never been homeless. My total concern and interception into the homeless man's plight is formulated from my genuine care for his well being. I care because I choose to, not because I relate or have experienced a similar situation.
Sympathy has a preordained value. Subsequently, empathy is transcended from one's internal value. I am appreciative of both. Finding acceptance, in all things, is equatable to discovering the soul inside of one's self.
Sympathy appertains identification. Empathy reveals self. Identification is seen. Self is felt.
I know you see me, but what is unseen is heartfelt.
Blessings,
DLR
In my personal opinion, sympathy can be selectively intrusive. Of course, I am appreciative of sympathy. However, sympathy is often rehearsed. On the other hand, I am an advocate for empathy. I believe that empathy is genuine. For instance, if I am empathetic towards the homeless man I meet on the street, it is not because I have experienced homelessness. I have never been homeless. My total concern and interception into the homeless man's plight is formulated from my genuine care for his well being. I care because I choose to, not because I relate or have experienced a similar situation.
Sympathy has a preordained value. Subsequently, empathy is transcended from one's internal value. I am appreciative of both. Finding acceptance, in all things, is equatable to discovering the soul inside of one's self.
Sympathy appertains identification. Empathy reveals self. Identification is seen. Self is felt.
I know you see me, but what is unseen is heartfelt.
Blessings,
DLR